Showing posts with label ejaculatory control. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ejaculatory control. Show all posts

Monday, October 27, 2014

7 Ways to Last Longer in Bed with a Woman

Do you want to learn how to last longer in bed so that your wife or girlfriend will be utterly and totally satisfied? Now a woman will probably will not come right out and tell you that she's sexually frustrated, but if you can only last for a few minutes, the chances are that she is. The good news is that it's possible to become a better lover, and pretty quickly too. You can start by following these seven tips:

1) Get into better shape.

Exercising and being in good physical condition will increase your sexual stamina as well.Your endurance will be increased, and you will be able to last longer than usual.

2) Get more protein and vitamin E in your diet

Foods such as fish, olive oil, and nuts will improve your sexual health. You can also get protein and vitamin E in supplements although try to get as much from your diet as you can.

3) Go for a second round.

If you ejaculate too quickly, don't just roll over and go to sleep! Wait a bit and go for a second round. You can spend time kissing, cuddling, and performing oral sex on her until you're ready to go again. It's easier to last longer during subsequent rounds.

4) Use the stop-and-go method.

Learn to identify the point at which ejaculation is inevitable, and stop just before reaching that point. Stop, pull out, and take some deep breaths. Take as long as you need to get control before going at it again.

5) Try the squeeze technique.

When you start to reach the point of inevitability, stop, pull out, and squeeze your penis just below the head. Put some pressure on the urethra on the underside of the shaft. This might be uncomfortable or even painful at first, but it's one of the easiest ways to last longer bed. It suppresses the ejaculatory urge so that you can regain control

6) Try to get her to climax first,

Bringing your partner to orgasm first will reduce your anxiety. Sometimes premature ejaculation is due to performance anxiety. If you take care of her pleasure first, you'll be able to relax. Don't be in a rush to stick it in. Spend extra time on foreplay and oral sex. When you do get to intercourse, take your time, and take a break if you get too excited.

7) Use the woman-on-top position.

Let her on get on top, and ask her to take things slowly for the first few minutes. You need to avoid doggy style and the missionary position if you want to last longer in bed, as these positions are more stimulating.

Following these seven ways to last longer bed with a woman will definitely help you delay ejaculation. Some of these tips you could try tonight. Others may take a bit more time. Either way, premature ejaculation is a problem that can be solved, but it's up to you to take the necessary steps.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

Monday, October 13, 2014

Ejaculatory Control Exercises

Premature ejaculation is a common sexual complaint that affects on out of three men at some time in their lives. However, in order to provide maximum pleasure to his partner and himself, a man needs to be able to last longer than a few minutes. If you need to achieve more ejaculatory control in the bedroom, you should know that this is quite possible with a little practice. Here is how to get started with your training.

Ejaculatory Control Solo Training

1) PC muscle exercises

One thing that you can practice to develop more ejaculatory control is PC muscle exercises, also known as Kegels.. The PC muscles are located just behind the scrotum on a man, and you can feel them when you stop urinating mid flow. All you have to do is to gently contract these muscles just at that point where you feel you are about to climax. This action can stop the ejaculatory response, giving you more ejaculatory control. My post Exercise for Harder Erections outlines a complete PC muscle exercise program.

2) Edging exercise

Edging is masturbating without ejaculating. To train to last longer, stop just before ejaculating and wait for the urge to subside. By doing this, you will be training your body to gain complete control over your ejaculatory response. This allows you to last longer, and helps to develop ejaculatory control The more you practise this exercise, the more ejaculatory control you will achieve.

Ejaculatory Control Partner Training

When you have made some progress training by yourself, it's time to take your training to the next level and practice with your partner. This will be more difficult than training by yourself as you will find yourself more aroused when you are in bed with your partner. What you can practice with your partner is edgingi: coming to that point of ejaculation and then backing off until the urge subsides. Practicing edging by yourself should give you a pretty good idea of when you need to pull out and cool off. Once you have control of yourself, return to intercourse, Keep repeating the procedure until your partner is satisfied.

You don't necessarily have to become a master of solo training before going on to practicing with your partner. However, edging with a partner is definitely harder than practicing edging by yourself. Continue your solo training even after you start partner practice until your ejaculatory control is as good as you and your partner want it to be.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

Monday, August 18, 2014

10 Home Remedies to Prevent Premature Ejaculation:

Premature ejaculation (PE) is the inability to delay ejaculation long enough to satisfy a sexual partner. It is a common sexual dysfunction that affects millions of men around the world. There are several possible causes of PE, but the most common are depression, stress, anxiety, relationship problems, and negative past sexual experiences. Men who suffer from premature ejaculation often feel frustrated, guilty, embarrassed, and uncertain about his manhood. Fortunately, a number of natural herbal and home remedies exist that can help men to overcome premature ejaculation. Here are ten of the most effective home remedies to prevent premature ejaculation.

1) Drinking almond milk is a popular home remedy for premature ejaculation. Add a pinch of ginger, a pinch of cardamom and a pinch of saffron to one cup of almond milk and stir well. Have this drink every morning..

2) Boil a glass of milk and then add a 1-inch cube of ginger and a teaspoon of honey in it. Strain the milk mixture and then drink it daily.

3) Boil one cup of milk and add a half-ounce of asparagus root in it. For best results, drink this mixture two times a day.

4) Prepare a mixture by adding half a boiled egg and one tablespoon of honey into six ounces of finely chopped fresh carrots. Take this mixture once a day for two to three months.

5) Add a spoon of green onion seed to glass of water. Stir it thoroughly and sip the mixture before every meal.

6) Eating white onions on a regular basis may strengthen the reproductive organs and be beneficial for preventing premature ejaculation.

7) Eat two to three cloves of garlic every day.

8) Add aphrodisiac foods, such as celery, banana, carrot, and fennel to your daily diet.

9) Add saffron in your diet as often as possible. It is a powerful herb that can increase sex drive and even stimulate sexual performance.

10) Take three different herbs, Ashwagandha, Vidari, and Bala in equal amounts, and mix them thoroughly. Regularly take 1/2 teaspoon of this herbal formula along with goat’s milk (warm) two times a day. You can also take the herbal mixture with cow’s milk, but it will be less effective.

Since the cause of premature ejaculation varies from man to man, not every remedy works for everyone. Although you should give it some time to work, if one remedy doesn't seem to be helping, try another... and another if necessary. It may take a bit of experimentation, but one of them is sure to effective.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

5 Steps to Prevent Premature Ejaculation During Sex Tonight

Men often ejaculate sooner than they wanted to during sexual intercourse. There are both psychological and biological reasons for premature ejaculation. An occasional episode is nothing to be ashamed of or concerned about. On the other hand, if you can prevent it from occurring, why not do so? The next time you have sex, try these five steps to prevent premature ejaculation.

1) Masturbate before sex.

Masturbate one to two hours before you are planning to have sex. This can relieve seminal pressure that may have built up. By relieving this pressure, you will be more relaxed, and itwill take longer to reach an orgasm.

2) Engage in estended foreplay.

Engage in extended foreplay instead of hurrying to penetrate your partner. This will give your partner time to become aroused and make her more responsive during sex. It also take the focus off your sexual performance during intercourse since more time is spent in foreplay.

3) Stop thrusting before orgasm.

When you do enter your partner, begin thrusting - slowly at first.. Continue until you feel you feel nearing ejaculation. Instead of thrusting harder and faster to reach orgasm, stop and pull out. Just tell your partner that you're close to orgasm and need to slow down. She'll understand.

4) Use the squeeze technique.

Squeeze the end of the penis where the head joins the shaft. Hold until you no longer feel the urge to ejaculate. Resume intercourse 30 seconds after releasing the penis. You may not be fully erect after the squeeze is applied, but sex should continue anyway.

5) Repeat if necessary.

Repeat the squeeze technique again when you feel that you are about to ejaculate. How long should you continue? Most women need 10-20 minutes to become fully aroused and have an orgasm from sexual intercourse.When she has an orgasm, or her arousal no longer seems to be building, you can go ahead and ejaculate.

Achieving ejaculatory control usually takes some time and practice, but following these five steps can help you prevent premature ejaculation tonight. If premature ejaculation is a chronic condition with you, this method will allow your to experience what sexual intercourse is supposed to be like rather than the brief episode it usually is. Best of all, it will also give you and your partner more time to enjoy sex together, and enjoyment is really what it's all about.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

Monday, July 21, 2014

4 Premature Ejaculation Exercises

Premature ejaculation is believed to have many causes, including psychological causes such as performance anxiety or relationship issues and physical causes such as a weak PC muscle or a hyper-sensitive penis. Men who want to last longer during sex have numerous options for treatment. While there are herbal supplements, prescription medications, and desensitizing creams and sprays that may help a man deal with premature ejaculation, there are also exercises a man can do that are often quite effective.

1) Breathing Exercises

Your heart rate as well your breathing increases as you near ejaculation. One good premature ejaculation exercise is to slow your breathing just as you reach your climax. Breathe slower and hold your breath in for a few seconds before exhaling. This will slow down your rate of arousal.

2) Stop and Go

During sex, you can practice the stop and go exercise to control arousal and delay ejaculation. The man simply stops thrusting, pulling out of the vagina if necessary, when ejaculation feels imminent. No stimulation is applied for a while as the feeling of impending ejaculation subsides. This exercise can also be repeated as often as necessary in order to prolong the sexual experience.

3) Squeeze Exercise

The squeeze exercise takes the start and go exercise to the next level. Just before an orgasm, you pull out of the vagina and squeezes the tip of the penis at the base of the glans. This exercise is meant to stop the arousal process and help the feeling of impending ejaculation subside. Your partner could also perform the exercise instead of you doing it yourself.

4) Kegel Exercises

Many experts blame a pubococcygeus (PC) muscle that is too relaxed and uncontrolled for premature ejaculation. The PC muscle contracts and pulses during ejaculation in order to evacuate the semen through the penis. These contractions occur automatically during an orgasm, but a man can strengthen the PC muscle in order to control when the contractions begin. PC muscle exercises are also known as Kegel exercises, named after the doctor who invented them. The more a man practices Kegel exercises, the more he will develop voluntary control over the PC muscle and be able to delay ejaculation.

Although strengthening the PC muscle will take some t. ime, you could practice any or all of the first three exercises tonight. An understanding partner can be a help, but even that's not necessary. Ultimately, premature ejaculation is problem that only you can fix, and by practicing these exercises you can begin the process.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

Monday, October 21, 2013

4 Techniques to Last Longer in Bed

Are you frustrated with sex that always finishes too soon? If you are, it is nothing to feel ashamed about. There are many more men just like you, disappointed about not being able to satisfy their sexual partners in bed. It is a biological fact that women need more time for arousal in order to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse. Ten to fifteen minutes is common for many women. That means you need the ability to last at least that long in order for your partner to be sexually satisfied. In order to achieve that kind of ejaculatory control, try using these four techniques that help you last longer during sex.

Don’t go deep.

If you feel that continued deep thrusting will bring on a premature ejaculation, try penetrating only the lower portion of her vagina - or to put it another way,, take more shallow thrusts. Alternating between shallow and deep thrusts can make you last longer, and will also make the experience a lot more pleasurable.

Slow down.

Instead of the fast-[aced, jack-hammering style that many men are so fond of, try slowing down. Sex at a slower pace leads to a more satisfying experience for both partners. It will also help you last longer. Slow down and enjoy the journey that leads to the destination.

Use the Kama Sutra method.

For a more specific way to "slow down," there is a technique mentioned in the Kama Sutra for delaying ejaculation that basically comes down to starting slowly and then picking up the pace. Start thrusting slowly with no more than one “in/out” stroke every three seconds. You should then build more strokes slowly over the course of several minutes, until you are moving at one stroke per second. If you start to feel like you are going to ejaculate, you should stop and hold yourself inside your partner until you feel in control again. Then begin the whole process over.

Practice the 7 and 9 technique.

Similar to the Kama Sutra method, the 7 and 9 technique uses 7 fast in/out strokes, followed by 9 slow in/out strokes. Then repeat: 7 fast, 9 slow, 7 fast, 9 slow. This rhythm is good for men who don't last quite as long as their partner needs, and good for their partners as it establishes a good rhythm for her stimulation too.

If you want to last longer in bed, then using one or more these four techniques will work wonders in helping you achieve your goal. If you practice these four simple tips, sensational stamina will soon be a reality for you.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

Monday, September 23, 2013

Premature Ejaculation: 5 Tried and Tested Solutions

Premature ejaculation (PE) is a problem with a large percentage of sexually active men. The definition of PE differs greatly on whom you consult. It can mean orgasm before penetration, shortly after penetration, or simply, orgasm too soon to please a partner. This makes PE a highly relative term. For the man who can have a successful foreplay session with his partner and achieve penetration, but finishes in less than five minutes, you may only need some careful training. Here are five tried and tested solutions that can be used to treat premature ejaculation.

1) The Chinese Method.

After penetration, and a few moments of trusting, withdraw and go back to foreplay, or make an excuse and let the cat out or the dog in. This starting and stopping will let you achieve easily up to an hour of erection and towards the end of your session, you partner may be aroused enough to orgasm as well.

2) Wear a Thick Condom.

This will act to desensitize your penis, especially the "trigger" area under the crown or head. It may be less pleasurable to you, but your partner will not notice the difference. She will only notice you are lasting longer.

3) Use an Analgesic Gel.

This may also make your (and your partner) feel less sensations (unless you wear a condom...and some condoms already come with such gel included). It will buy you some time, and as you get used to more time, you will gain confidence and begin to less nervous and last longer naturally.

4) Have a Drink/

Have a drink of red wine shortly before your sexual encounter. Do not drink more than that though. A glass drunk with your partner slowly and sensually will act to relax you and by being relaxed, you will last longer.

5) Practice Kegel Exercises.

You can develop your Kagel muscles (the ones you use to restrict urination). You just constrict and relax these muscles wherever you are and almost whatever you are doing. (My post Exercise for Harder Erections has a complete Kegel exercise program.) After a few weeks, you will see you have a great more control that you imagined over your ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is a major problem for many men, so you're not alone. You can take positive action to help your condition by trying one or more of these tried and tested solutions. One thing for certain: the problem won't fix itself.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

Monday, August 6, 2012

Eding and Ballooning: Two Exercises to Help Cure Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is a condition from which millions of men worldwide have suffered, but it's a condition that is highly curable. In cases where the premature ejaculation is severe, it is highly advisable to see a medical professional. However, for milder cases, premature ejaculation exercises may help or reverse the condition. Premature ejaculation exercises can help you build stamina and learn control. Edging and ballooning are two premature ejaculation exercises that will help you strengthen your penis and improve your staying power during sex.

Edging
One of the best exercises to incorporate into your penis exercising routine is edging. Edging is masturbating and stopping right before you ejaculate. Once your urge to ejaculate has subsided, you repeat the process as many times as you’d like. By building up over and over again, you’re training your brain to learn how to gain complete control of your ejaculations and, thus, overcome any problem with premature ejaculation you may have.This "stop and go" build-up also can help you achieve even stronger orgasms Try to build up to twenty minutes per edging session before you ejaculate.

Ballooning
Similar to edging, ballooning involves masturbating and stopping right before you ejaculate. However, it doesn’t involve stroking the penis up and down. Ballooning helps with premature ejaculation by training your brain to learn how to become comfortable with feeling sexual pleasure without a release.To practice ballooning, find the super-sensitive “magic spot” on your penis (avoid the frenulum under the head at first, as it may be too sensitive) and rub over and over, using a circular motion until just before ejaculation. In a ballooning session, your goal is to stay at your maximum hardness for as long as possible without ejaculating. This practice can help you gradually increase your stamina.

Even if you find you need medical assistance in your fight against premature ejaculation, premature ejaculation exercises can help you increase your stamina and prowess over the long term. Like the rest of your body, your pelvic muscles and the smooth muscle tissue in your penis can become more “muscular” with training, allowing you ultimately to be able to sustain more powerful erections for longer. It is in the strength of your erection that you will find greater control over your climax.

Are you sick and tired of the frustration and embarrassment of finishing way too soon? Finally, you can end the "personal hell of premature ejaculation forever! To discover how you can last 15-45 minutes longer in bed tonight, click here!

Monday, April 11, 2011

How to Learn Ejaculatory Control

Betty Dodson says that by practicing conscious masturbation, you can "master" ejaculatory control. For more remedies for premature ejaculation, see my posts Exercise for Ejaculatory Control and Two Tantric Techniques for Ejaculatory Control.